Well, Hi There!!
Hi everybody, Selma here.
When Karen asked me if I would consider writing with her on her blog about writing I jumped at the chance. Literally. I actually went all girly for a moment and jumped and clapped at the same time. My housemaid’s knee has been playing up ever since.
I adore Karen. I first met her about 5 or 6 years ago on the Writers Weekly forum. I had never heard of writing forums or blogs or anything like that before Writers Weekly and when I came across Ms Karen and all the other amazing writers on that forum I was hooked.
Karen is a highly entertaining, imaginative, warm and engaging writer and although I have never physically met her in person I know her well enough from emails and blog posts and so on to know that she is exactly the same in person.
But don’t let my effusiveness fool you into thinking that my purpose here is just to sing the praises of Ms Karen. That is important, but what is just as important is talking about this business of writing. The pleasure, the pain, the chipped nailpolish from pounding on your computer keyboard, the dog eared thesaurus that you borrowed from your friend who no longer wants it back because she is worried about the brown stains on P.123 (they are coffee stains but she just wont’ believe me), the writer’s block, the verbal diarrhoea, the despair of rejection, the elation of acceptance. You name it, if it pertains to writing we’re going to be talking about it.
So who am I anyway to be talking about writing?
In the words of one of my personal idols – Mr. Austin Danger Powers – allow myself to introduce myself.
Hi. I am Selma. I write a blog all the way from Sydney, Australia called Selma In The City. I am probably best categorised as a personal blogger, although I do write fiction.
I have a Bachelor’s degree in Education and a Postgraduate Diploma in Editing and Professional Writing. I worked as a teacher for 15 years and currently work as an editor on a freelance basis. I have worked for newspapers, independent publishers, and for an ill-fated 6 months for a largish publisher. I have edited everything from bus timetables to novels, but my desire, my dream is to be a novelist.
Many people tell me that I can write, but sometimes I wonder. It can be very difficult to get anywhere even if you are an adequate writer. In my heart I know I can write, but my major problem is letting outside factors distract me from getting my novels done – things such as having to pay the rent or raise my son.
Many people also suggest I enrol in a creative writing course at university or college. It is true that such courses can often fast track a writer to publishing success but they are expensive and often churn out writers with very similar styles and perspectives.
I have the secret to becoming a better writer. I’m going to tell you what it is right now and you won’t even have to pay for it. The secret to becoming a better writer, to perhaps being a writer that gets published is – *drumroll* – TO WRITE!!!
I know. It’s so obvious you’re sorry you didn’t think of it, aren’t you?
I have to tell you that this is a secret that actually works.
Almost two years ago I started my blog. Believe it or not it was on the recommendation of my therapist who felt it would help me get over a bout of depression. One of the reasons I was depressed was because I had been dropped by a big time publisher. I will fill you in on that tale of woe in a later post, but getting dropped really affected my confidence.
So I started to blog and write stories. And I found I had an audience. And I got involved in writing communities. And I even managed to get several short stories published. And even though I still couldn’t remember the difference between stationery and stationary, my confidence grew.
If you want to write fiction and you don’t know where to start, why not test the waters via blogging? There are lots and lots of wonderful people out there who will welcome you into their communities and give you feedback on your writing. More importantly, it will get you writing every day or at least several times a week. You will be surprised how quickly you improve and how many contacts you make.
I recommend it as a great place to start honing your craft.
Oh-Ms. Karen and Selma in the same blog! What a wonderful idea. I will be stopping by everyday!
Yay!
I’m so glad you’re here, Selma! Welcome. Now, we need a name for this place…
SAGACIOUS WOMAN:
We’re going to have a bit of fun. I can feel it!
HEATHER:
Yeehaaa!!!
KAREN:
I tried to respond by email but I don’t think it worked. But it’s great to be here. BONZA!!!
I would do a little jig but I don’t want to drop Tigger…
“It’s so obvious you’re sorry you didn’t think of it, aren’t you?”
At the moment I’m sorry I *do* think about it each day. Hunt-and-peck one-handed typing sucks as does mousing with my left hand. Oh for some time to really write again! I wish now I hadn’t wasted so much of it before Tigger came along. Always the way, isn’t it? Nevermind, his cheeky smile makes up for it.
Ack! I think my email is broken! Nothing is getting through. Selma, I’ll send you old reliable email addy if I can’t get the one connected to this site to work.
DAOINE:
I think of it too. It is absolute torture. You have a legitimate excuse – you have the beautiful wee Tigger to squeeze, but I – I – I – I got nothin’ but excuses. I am hoping Karen’s good influence will rub off on me and I will get moving….
KAREN:
I got it. Those email addresses have a mind of their own sometimes!
What a great post to “stumble” upon. Maybe not just by chance. I was reading one of your comments Karen, over at Sel’s today and clicked through to see what you’ve been up to. This was a VERY inspiring post to read. Great to read your thoughts here too Sel. I couldn’t agree more. It’s all true and it’s all good….writing is work. And may I quote myself: the best way to begin, is, to begin. It works for me, almost every time. Even when the inspiration to begin isn’t there. A very famous painter here in Canada (David Thauberger) told me much the same thing years ago. He said if he waited for inspiration to paint every day, he never would paint. He allowed himself mornings to “putter around” with coffee cup in hand. But at 12 noon…it was time to sub. a paint brush for the cup. The inspiration…soon to follow.
Hugs, G
Hi, Geraldine. WOW. You know David Thauberger. He is awesome. I love his use of colour and shape. That is an excellent point you make – the only way to begin is to begin. The painting won’t paint itself, the novel won’t write itself. It is work just like anything else. I really appreciate you visiting here. Cheers, hon!
Heh Sel, I wrote a profile story about David many years ago for a newspaper. What a talented and down to earth man he is. I also had a serious(long-past) “history” with a cousin of his. The Prairies do churn out a winner or two…David certainly is one of them. I love his work too. He also allowed me to “sit in” on a couple of his painting sessions, that was so interesting.
Hugs to you and Ms. Karen. G
Hi, Geraldine. That would have been so exciting. It is so refreshing when someone with such talent is so down to earth. I would have been thrilled to have met him and would have been starstruck to sit in on one of his sessions. How awesome!
His cousin wasn’t too shabby either LOL!!! Don’t get me started…
Hi, GERALDINE,
You are hilarious. i would love to hear more…..